Asking Better Questions to Create a Better Life
People often ask me:
“How does asking better questions of yourself create a different life?”
Well, that’s where it all begins. The quality of your life is shaped by the quality of your questions.
Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?”, if you asked, “Why is this happening FOR me?” or “What is this teaching me?” or “Who do I need to become to move beyond this?” life would be incredibly different for you.
Shifting from victimhood to curiosity opens doors that once seemed locked.
And I used to be trapped behind those doors…until the questions I asked changed.
This improvement in your words improves your life because your mind is always looking for answers. When you ask small, limiting questions, you get small, limiting answers. But when you ask expansive questions—ones that stretch your perspective—you unlock new possibilities. Instead of seeing obstacles, you start to see choices. And that changes everything.
What does that mean? It means you’re stepping into empowerment. You’re no longer letting old stories, fear, or survival mode dictate your future. You’re taking responsibility for your energy, your beliefs, and your reality. You’re becoming the person who creates instead of reacts.
My transformation took years…and also, a moment. Transformation happens the instant you decide to see things differently. But embodying that change is a journey. It takes commitment, trust, and support. Every step forward is a choice to align with the life you desire.
How can you get from survival mode to empowered?
First, recognize that survival mode isn’t your identity—it’s just a state. From there, start shifting your focus from fear to possibility by asking better quality questions that come from an expansive energy, not victim.
Surround yourself with people who remind you of your power. And most of all, believe that you are capable of something more. Because you are.
And let me ask you this: What if the life you truly desire is already within reach, waiting for you to step into it?”
You might be feeling stuck in your current circumstances, overwhelmed with stepping into that new chapter that is calling, held back by fear of the unknown, or even self-doubt, and old patterns. Asking better questions can be challenging when you are in survival mode.
You tell yourself you’re not ready or that it’s too late to create the change you long for. But here’s the truth: The power to transform your life is already within you. It’s not about doing more; it’s about becoming more, becoming the version of you who creates success, peace, and freedom in your new next chapter, with ease.
This is your time to rise. Your time to break free from fear and doubt, to embrace clarity, confidence, and the life you know you’re meant to live.
I would like to invite you to a free video series you can access right now where I’ll guide you through powerful steps to shift your perspective on the new or unknown path ahead, release the blocks holding you back, and align with your most authentic, expansive self.
Let’s take this journey together—I can’t wait to see what’s possible for you.
Trish xo
